Host
A Cookie Exchange
By
Jeanne Baratta (Fair Lawn's Kitchen
Elf)
I
can think of no better way to get to know the people in our community than
through food. Make that food a sweet confection and you are on your
way.
During
these emotional and troubling times our Country is now facing, I think it
is important, now more than ever, to show our countries unity.
Fair
Lawn is a diversified town. Many ethnic and religious groups are
represented here. (See
article on growing Asian population).
The
month of December holds many holidays for many groups of people, this
would be a perfect time to get to know these people and their traditions.
A cookie exchange is a light, fun way to accomplish this.
If
you decide to be the host of this event, here is some information to get
you started. First thing, put together a guest list. Try to broaden this
list to not just include your usual circle of friends and family. Think of
the Mom waiting alone on the school playground, the parents you have never
spoken to because of a language barrier, a family that has just moved to
your neighborhood.
Don't
be afraid to invite people with different backgrounds, I promise by
inviting a diversified group of people you will not only have lots of
yummy goodies, but you will be enriching your family in ways you may not
now imagine!
Now,
to get to the nitty-gritty of the exchange! You can set your own rules,
but here are some general ideas.
Pick
a date for your gathering. Everyone's calendar fills up fast in
December so send your invitations out ahead of time. Decide if this
party will be for adults only (husbands & wives), just women, and will
children be included? If children are to be included, bake up a few
batches of cutout cookies and set up an area for the children to decorate
them with a supply of icing and sprinkles. A craft for older children or
coloring sheets for the younger set can keep the kids busy.
Decide
if you will be feasting on the cookies during the party or if the cookies
will be for take home. If your exchange will be for take home, then each
guest should bake at least 4-6 dozen cookies.
Arrange
all the cookies on a large table (have your guests present their cookies
in decorative baskets or containers), ask your guests to bring containers
for taking home their treasures. After the socializing is through everyone
goes around the table filling their containers with the sweet bounty. What
a wonderful way to fill your home with an assortment goodies during the
hectic days of December!
Also,
if the cookies are for exchange, you should serve your guests some
refreshments. Enlist the help of a friend, and serve some eggnog or
holiday punch, an assortment of simple hors d’oeuvres and maybe some
light sandwiches. If the cookies are for sharing at the party, coffee, tea
and especially hot cocoa would be welcome!
After
all your guests arrive and the initial mingling is over, have your guests
take turns introducing themselves and their cookies! Ask about the origin
of their concoction, have them share a family story about what they have
brought, why this recipe is important to them. I know whenever I think
about family traditions there is always some type of food that I associate
the season with. Sometimes just the aroma of something cooking will bring
a flood of memories about a special holiday. This is a wonderful way to
break the ice and get to know more about your neighbors!
You
may want your guests to bring recipe cards to give to all in attendance so
they can try their hand at this special confection. You may want to ask
your guests to let you know what type of cookie they will making when they
RSVP to you. This way you won’t have a table filled with chocolate chip
cookies!
For
those of you non-bakers, or busy bees who just don’t have time to bake,
I say give it a try! If it doesn't work out, think of the story you can
tell about your first time baking experience. As the host try an encourage
the people that say "I don’t bake" to attend. They are the
ones that seem to enjoy it the most!
What
ever you decide, keep the mood light! Decorate your home for the holidays
before hand, light a cozy fire in the fireplace, play some seasonal music,
and above all else enjoy yourself and your guests! This may seem like a
large endeavor, and I won’t say it is not, but I think it is well worth
the effort. What a wonderful tradition to start in your neighborhood!
Here
is one of my favorite holiday recipes to get you started:
When
I was a child growing up in Fair Lawn, one of my favorite memories of
Christmas was attending Midnight Mass at St. Anne's Church. I am a little
embarrassed to say that it was because after the service was over and we
returned home, we would find that St. Nick had visited our home!